Prayer's please

I know it's been some time since we gave an update on Bobby's dad. Well, he has been doing kemo and has done remarkedly well over the last few months.

Well today is a BIG day, he is back in John's Hopkins where he will be having lung surgery to remove the lob with the cancerous mass.

Please keep him in your prayers

Our journey back to Arizona (beta)

Slideshow test (Our journey from DE to Mesa, AZ)

WestBound!

Heading WEST this morning! Windy but we need to be in Mesa, AZ by November 16th for Shelly's new nursing assignment. More details to come!

MUCH MUCH needed update

As you may expect, it's been a trying time, so please excuse us for the lack of posts/updates.

Here's a quick summary for the last month:

Sept. 10th - Trip back to Johns Hopkins. Doctor removed additional dead cancer tissue. While that was being done, Arlene (Mom), Shelly and I went over to a "Chemo class". Basically the do's and don'ts and went to be concerned. Dad's Chemo treatment took much of the rest of the day. Stayed at a Holiday Express.

Sept. 13th - Drove up to the campground Bobby's parents are staying for their "Seafood Feast". We enjoyed it and seeing more family members. Thankfully, Bob(dad) seems to be doing well, with his main side effect, from chemo, being weakness at this time.

Sept. 19th - Bobby's birthday!!

Sept. 20th - Today we went to the Church Picnic. There was plenty to eat, kids enjoyed the horse rides, inflatable jumper, and playground equipment. While the adults played volleyball, football, and the fellowship with each other.

Sept. 21st - Today is "Friends Day" at church. We brought Jamie (Bobby's cousin). After the service, we did some shopping at Sam's Club. Later, we went to our first bible study.

Sept. 22nd - Left Gumboro with the coach and headed south to Virginia for a week getaway/vacation. Our first stop was at "Tall Pines Harbor Campground". We had gone there for years with our old pop-up and had become friends with the owners, Sherry and Ray. It was good to see them again and catch-up with each other. We planned to stay one or two nights, before heading down to Kiptopeake for the fest of the week but we ended up stayed the whole week here. There was a "un-named" subtropical storm off the coast that ended up going directly over us. We had 40+mph winds and heavy rain. Was still nice to get back to the campground scene and have some one on one time to each other.

Sept.23nd - Oct.2nd - Bobby helped Clay & Terri with their garage renovations. Dad has started to lose his hair and underwent his second Chemo treatment. The rest of our time has been spent with a family member battling Alcohol abuse.

Oct.3rd - 8th - Took family member to detox and began to clean his home. This was a BIG job but we thank God we were here for him at his time of need. On Saturday, Bobby shaved his head (YES Bald!) in support of his father loosing his hair from chemo. Check it out!

Lastly, we have started looking for Shelly's next nursing assignment and planning our next steps when we leave here. We will likely head for coastal SC/GA and/or head back west to NM/AZ for the winter. Instead of worrying, we are leaving it in God's hands to show us the way.

Once we are back on the road, we will update the website regularly. Thank you again for your prayers and patience!

Much Needed UPDATE

Thank you again for all the well wishes and prayers for Bobby's father. Over the last few weeks we have made many trips to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, Maryland. After many Ups and Downs, an experimental treatment (Photo Dynamic Therapy) was used on him and so far has shown good results. We are again heading to Hopkins this morning to meet with his Oncologist to schedule Chemo, which he will likely start next week.

Between hospital trips, Bobby has done several hundred miles on his bike, while Shelly continues to keep fit on the Nintendo Wii. Bobby may even ride (50 or 62 miles) Saturday (if no Hurricanes come up here) in the 22nd Annual Amish country Bike Tour, it would be his first charity ride!

As it stands now, we can't say when we will be leaving this area. Although, we are planning to head about 100 miles south to Kiptopeke State Park (near Cape Charles, VA) for a week around September 15th (again if no Hurricanes make it up here). We haven't been in a campground since arriving in Delaware so we are having withdraw.

Please continue to keep him and us in your prayers.

Hopkins (Day 1)

Got up at 4AM to finish getting stuff ready for our trip to Johns Hopkins. We're so used to having everything with us wherever we go, it's strange having to pack to stay in a hotel. Gonna miss our "house", bed, and babies (cats).

We left at 6AM to meet Bobby's parents at their place in Houston, DE. We left our car at their site, as we're riding with them.

When we got to Baltimore, we went straight to Hopkins. We ended up being there about 6 1/2 hours. We walked all over different parts of their outpatient center for Bob's various tests - bloodwork, EKG, pulmonary function test, ABG's, and chest CT. We also met with Dr. Yung who talked with us close to an hour reviewing tests from Nanticoke (Seaford), today's pulmonary function test results, and what he plans to do tomorrow. He was very thorough and explained everything clearly. At this point, he's thinking it's a stage II, maybe stage III, non small cell cancer. He also thinks that a stint won't be necessary but he wouldn't know for sure till he does the bronchoscope tomorrow. We should have all the results after the procedure is done, as they do/get some of the biopsy results right in the OR.

Day done, we headed over to the hotel, got checked in and went up to our room. Bob was worn out from the day's events, so he opted to climb into bed to take a nap. So we set out to look for a place where we could get something to eat. The hotel's restaurant was way overpriced and didn't look that great. So we set out on foot. We ended up finding "O'Shea's pub", a nice Irish place. We sat down at the bar, ordered food for all of us (to take back to the hotel), and both of us had a pint of Guinness while we waited for the food.

Food in hand, we walked back to the hotel where we all ate a good meal together, watched some TV, and then drifted off to sleep.

Trip to Hopkins tomorrow

Shelly worked until 4:30PM today. When she got home, she worked out on the Wii Fit for about 35 minutes and then we had dinner. We then worked on getting everything together for our trip to Johns Hopkins with Bobby's parents tomorrow. Praying for good results.

Music, Beer and Food

Our friend Cliff surprised Bobby this afternoon by dropping by for a visit. Shelly was working but somehow they were able to have a good time together anyway, LOL ;-) Music, Beer and Food was in order! I beautiful day for a mini cookout with friends!

Shelly had a busy, busy 12 hours at work today. She visited for about 30 minutes, enjoying the burgers and chicken that Bobby had cooked on the grill before heading off to bed, as she is working again tomorrow.

Shopping, Church, & Visit

Bobby had been inviting his sister Michelle to church for the last few weeks and she finally agreed to go with us today. So we're going to meet her and Alexis (her daughter) in Salisbury and have her follow us to the church.

We've continued to look for a Wii Fit (unsuccessfully) over the last few days. We decided to go to Salisbury early to try the Target and Wal-Mart before church. No luck. We had extra time to kill, so we picked up a Sunday newspaper to look thru the ads until it was time to meet Michelle. While looking at the Circuit City ad, we saw they had Wii Fits advertised. So we called Michelle and asked her to meet us there instead. We arrived there 5 minutes before they opened with only five people in line in front of us to get in the store. When the doors opened, we went in and right over to the counter where they had the Wii Fits. Well, they only had 5 and all of the five people in front of us bought one! You'd think if they ran an ad, they'd have more, but they said that's all they were getting.

So we left and headed to church with Michelle and Alexis in tow. It was a good service, even though we were missing the preacher, Brent Brady, and about 17 members of the congregation. They had flown down to Slidell, LA for the week to work with IDES, building a house for a deserving family. We'll just have to get Michelle and Alexis to come back next week, when everyone will be back.

After church, we went our separate ways. We decided to hit a few more stores looking for a Wii Fit. 1st: Toys R Us ("No") and then we went to two more stores. Since they were both in the same shopping center, Bobby went into GameStop ("No"), while Shelly checked the Best Buy. When Shelly entered the store, one of the sales guys asked me how she was. She responded that she was "good, but would be much better if she had a Wii Fit". He said, "Let me call my manager". Next thing she knew, the manager comes out and walks her to the back of the store where he has a Wii Fit waiting for her! Seems as though they weren't supposed to put them out for sale till next Sunday, but they were making an exception for Shelly.

So we got out Wii Fit and went happily on our way. Couldn't go straight home, as we had made plans to visit our friend Cliff Handy for a few hours today. We made a couple more stops along the way, once at the flea market (to look for Wii games and have lunch) and again at our storage shed to check on our "stuff". It's still there and would be nice to have a yard sale right there, but doubt the storage company would like that idea.

We then headed to Cliff's to catch up with each other. Had a nice visit, but couldn't stay too long, as Shelly's working tomorrow. So we went back home. Got the Wii Fit setup and Shelly did 30 minutes of exercises while Bobby made dinner. A little relaxation and then it was off to bed.

Wii, Insurance, and errands

Finished filling out our required forms to get our vehicle(s) and full-timers insurance changed over to South Dakota. We then drove to Seaford to pick up our fridge fan we had ordered and then to our CPA to pick up our Change Of Address forms we need to send to DE and the IRS. Next we stopped at the Post Office to mail all of the above. One last stop at Wal-Mart to pick up a few things before heading back home.

Forgot to mention, we finally got to play with the Wii this morning. First, we setup our profiles, and then did some bowling and tennis. Shelly's arms are already sore from the tennis. Shelly works the next two days, and then it's off to Johns Hopkins on Weds with Bobby's parents.

Happy Birthday Mom!

Happy Birthday Arlene! Today is Bobby's mom's birthday. We drove up to Houston, DE to meet Bobby's parents at their place. Once again, we forgot our camera, so no pictures. We rode up to Dover with them to go out to dinner at Shuckers Pier 13, a seafood restaurant. Bobby got Clam Strips, Shelly got Crab Cakes, and Bob and Arlene got the Prime Rib. All the food was okay, but nothing outstanding. Dinner consumed, Shelly had the waitress surprise Arlene (& everyone else) with a slice of cheesecake and a "Happy Birthday" serenade by the wait staff. We all ended up eating it though, as Arlene hadn't planned for desert.

Arlene then drove us around Dover to various places where we went in looking for a Wii console and Wii Fit. We finally found a Wii at Wal-Mart (after making more stops then we could count). The hard part will be trying to find a Wii Fit, as it's only been out a few months and stores sell them as fast as they get them in.

After one of our last stops, a doctor from Johns Hopkins called and talked to Bob. He wants him to come over next Weds for tests and then plans to do a stint placement surgery (to keep the lung inflated) the next day. So we'll plan on spending at least a few days over there in Baltimore, MD.

Our shopping done, we headed back to the coach, as Shelly is scheduled to work the next two days.

Doctor visit and another emergency

Went to Seaford to meet Bobby's parents at Bob's doctor office to get the results of his PET scan. Well, it's a mass but they still cannot say what kind of cancer it is, though the doctor believes it's likely to be stage 3 Squamous cell lung cancer. He's going to make some phone calls to try to get Bob into Johns Hopkins or another large cancer facility ASAP.

After the appointment, we stopped by an RV place to order a fridge fan (to help circulate air inside our fridge) and then met Bobby's parents at Applebee's for lunch. While there, Arlene (Bobby's mother), received a phone call that her brother-in-law, Ernie (Bobby's uncle), was being admitted to the hospital and would be receiving emergency dialysis.

So, when we finished lunch, we headed over to the hospital to see Ernie. He seemed okay, just a bit tired (he was receiving his dialysis at the time).

Our first visit complete, we headed home for dinner as well as letting Clay and Teri know about Ernie and Bob's test results.